In business and life, it is important to make the best decisions we can. Often, we have inadequate information. Sometimes, as our experiences grow, our perspective changes. When that occurs, it is a good idea to take a step back and look at the options and assumptions a person has made. Recently, that is exactly what I have done with regard to my family’s business.
Family Business
As those of you who have been reading my blog know, my family owns a 12 room fishing lodge in Oregon.Â
This lodge gave me the chance to grow up in a very rural, rugged, and beautiful place. It also gave a strong work ethic, opportunities, and experience. Â
Pros and Cons
Family businesses bring their own set of opportunities and issues. My family’s business experienced them both.
The pros (benefits) of working in a family businesses can include working with family members, spending time together, family members sharing a common interests, and emotional support for other members of the family. In my case, working in the business gave me the chance to meet great customers (who became friends) who taught me so much about business.Â
The cons (costs) of a family business can include the requirement that family members set aside personal conflicts and feelings in order to meet the needs of the business, may have perspectives about what is important, and business issues can lead to familial conflict.
Perspective
The grass often looks greener on the other side of the fence. The color of the grass depends on the lenses through which a person is looking and what matters to the person at that moment in time.Â
Just like the weather in Oregon (give it a minute and it can change), so too a person’s perspective can change. When people are just starting out, they may be driven by items at the bottom of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. As those needs are satisfied, their motivation may move up the pyramid.
Decision
My father has been operating the family business for over 30 years and he wants to slow down. Beyond that, he wanted to make sure that my siblings and I had the ability to decide whether we operated the family business.
After considering all of the possibilities, I have decided to return to Oregon and to help my father operate the fishing lodge. Â
My vision and plan will allow me to grow the family business while helping people build business relationships (negotiate contracts, network, resolve conflicts) and develop their business skills.

Opportunities
Need a vacation and want to go someplace quiet?Â
Seeking a small meeting venue where cell phones don’t ring?Â
Are you looking for practical solutions to your business puzzles that are described in any of my blogs?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, ask yourself if there is something that you think I can do to help you.Â
For many of the questions, including help finding jobs, the approaches that I have used are described in this blog.  The ideas in this blog are generic, as most “free” solutions are.Â
Do you have a budget and need solutions that are tailored to your situation or need additional information? If so, please send me a note at infoli@c-davisconsulting.com to see if I may be able to help you. Â