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Relationship Tip: Manage Emotions
Tuesday, July 24th, 2007

When trying to encourage people to contribute their ideas to team meetings, it is important to manage emotions.

When emotions go unmanaged, people who might disagree tend to fall silent.  If people who disagree remain silent, we lose the benefit of their wisdom.  Mistakes are made.  Issues are overlooked. 

By managing our emotions (and helping others manage theirs), we create more inclusive and participative teams.  In many cases, this approach helps people work together.

What steps can be taken to manage emotions?

Recognize when emotions are likely to be high and have a plan for dealing with the emotions, if they arise.  By preparing for the discussion and having a plan for dealing with emotion, we are better prepared to deal with emotional situations when they arise.

Separate views from the individual.  By focusing on the substantive issues rather than making personal comments, people are better able to participate in substantive discussions.

Genuinely care about everyone’s success.  If people know that we are committed to their success, they are less likely to feel personally attacked.  Reserving judgment, understanding what the other people are saying, and diffusing tension are three ways of doing this.

What does this mean for your business?  How do you want to deal with conflict?

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Relationship Tip: Incent Desired Behavior
Sunday, July 22nd, 2007

In business relationships, people often are disappointed because the other parties behave in a manner that is inconsistent with what they are seeking. 

This can lead to:

Distrust

Surprises 

Frustration

Increased costs

Reduced profitability

How can we avoid this problem?  The answer is simply to incent the behavior that we want others to engage in. 

How do we do this?  That question is a bit more difficult.  Some of the steps for getting there from here are:

Defining success and deciding how and when it will be measured.  This approach sets us up to be sucessful, if we set realistic goals.  In addition though, it allows the efforts to be sustainable over extended periods of time.  And, it also gives us a bench mark against which we can decide if changes are needed.

Understanding what drives the other person or people or ourselves.  Success over the long term requires that every party to the relationship be successful.  The only way to help someone else be successful is to understand what success looks like through that person’s eyes.

Establish parameters for the solution.  For example, maybe administrative burdens need to meet particular criteria.  In some cases, the solution has to fall within specific budgetary limits. 

Communicate with the people involved.  The only way that the approach will incent anything positive - trust, loyalty, retention, or the desired behavior - is if the information is communicated to the people from whom the specific behavior is desired.  By communicating this information, they may choose to align their interests to support the goal and, when that occurs, the results can be far better than when you are doing this on your own.  That is the basic concept behind high performing work teams.

What sort of results might be realized this way?  Here too the answer depends on the context.  Consider an example.  Suppose that retention is important in an industry that has high turnover. 

If that is the case, one option that an employer might consider is the SEP IRA.  A SEP IRA allows the employer to contribute to retirement for employees that are similarly situated.  One of the factors that makes a SEP IRA unique is that the employer can require that people work for the employer for at least 3 of the prior 5 years, if desired.  (I’ve done some research on this issue, to understand a bit about what it is.  Now, I am consulting my advisors to understand if it is appropriate and whether it is the best option for me.  You are encouraged to use the same sort of structured approach.)

The SEP IRA has pretty high contribution limits so it is likely to provide strong retention incentives.  On the downside though, you can’t discriminate against anyone who meets the criteria.  What might this mean for you?

Think also about who might be incented to stay with the firm.  An employee with less than a year of tenure may have some incentive to stay with the firm.  An employee with two and a half years of tenure may be incented to stay with the firm more strongly. 

The person who is most likely to be incented to stay is the one who has over three years of tenure, provided that the contributions are substantial and the money is invested in a vehicle that is growing.  Of course, this assumes the person is motivated by money and financial security. 

If the people are motivated by something else - perhaps learning or helping others - a SEP IRA might still be a step to help get there, but it would need to be structured differently, or accompanied by other tools.

Think about this tip.  What does it mean for you?

Are you trying to incent someone else to behave in a particular manner?  If so, remember to focus on factors within your control, use the context to find opportunities, make good business decisions. be a trusted advisor to the people who you want to behave in a particular manner, and learn from experience.

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Family lodge is an example of geotourism
Saturday, July 21st, 2007

Growing up at my family’s fishing lodge, I had the ability to interact with customers.  We talked about many things - gardening, fishing, business, and substantive issues of the day.  It was networking person-to-person.

Places like my family’s lodge are rare.  It was built as a retirement home by my great-grandparents.  They had so many friends that wanted to get away from the city though that they had to turn it into a business.  It is extremely rural - surrounded by national forest and on a wild and scenic river.  Time stands still there in many ways.  Neighbors help each other.  Everyone knows everything about everyone else.  Masks disappear in such an environment.  Business and friendship intermingle.  I literally grew up at the lodge and customers were my mentors, teachers, suppliers, advisers, and friends.  To this day, that remains the case.  In some instances they also became neighbors, having decided that the area was extremely special.

People go to the lodge for a variety of reasons.  Some seek to fish.  The Rogue River has a reputation for being one of the finest fly fishing streams in the world.  Others want to walk.  There are several trails with varying degrees of maintenance and people can just walk on their own in many areas.  People enjoy seeing the gardens and eating fresh produce that was picked that day.  They enjoy watching wild animals in the animals’ habitats.  It is a heritage that many in the United States experienced, but many are generations removed from such a life style.  When they walk in the door at the lodge, customers are invited to make themselves at home.  Everything that we can reasonably do to accommodate the customer, is done.  Sometimes, customers have particular food preferences.  Just as those preferences would be accommodated in a family, we try to accommodate them.

Reading the newspaper this morning, I found out that there is a name for what we have been doing for roughly 70 years.  That name is geotourism.  With geotourism, the distinctiveness of the locale is emphasized and, as described above, both the tourist and the residents benefit.  That is what happened with my family business.  Customers got to step back in time.  I grew the knowledge that I needed and customers introduced a world of possibilities.  Even today, they do so.  National Geographic provided more information about geotourism.

If you are interested in staying a vacation at my family’s business, please let me know.  I am happy to talk with you about it. 

 

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Relationship Tip: Be a student with expertise, rather than an expert
Saturday, July 21st, 2007

As people talk about a particular area, they develop expertise in that area.  This is good because people should learn from their experience.  Growing up at my family’s lodge, we took it a step further and had a list of questions that guests asked (frequently!) with the answers.  Here was one of the questions and the answer (to the best of my memory): 

 Q:  What is your experience?

A:  Good or bad?  Doing what?

 This question and answer illustrates, for me, that we should always learn from experience, whether it is positive or negative. 

Years in procurement showed me a variety of things such as:

A rookie may be the wrong choice on a project because the rookie lacks experience today.  Over time, that rookie can gain the experience and become the right choice.

A person who sees himself or herself as an expert often finds it difficult to ask questions, learn from others, and listen with an open mind.  As a result, if the problem faced is different from what the expert has seein in the past, there may be better options than engaging the expert.

While people are learning about an area, they are developing expertise and their knowledge may compliment our own. 

Real solutions have to be tailored to the actual problem.  Often, the issue that is identified is a symptom of a bigger problem.

There is a lot of truth to the engineering definition of an expert as “an unknown drip under pressure.”

Stated differently, expertise can grow while experts shrink.

Questions, research, challenging my own thinking, looking at the situation from different perspectives, and talking with people are five ways that I grow my expertise. 

What do you think?  Is it better to be a student with expertise, or to be an expert?  What steps are you taking based on your answer to that question?

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Relationship Tip: Be a Trusted Advisor
Thursday, July 19th, 2007

Often, consultants are people who tell clients how to do things that the consultants have never done.  This is a recipe for a bad business relationship.  What can be done?

When people help clients solve problems they have faced, they:

Can provide better advice

Set their clients up for success

Bring a greater understanding of issues that may arise

Have greater ability to anticipate and suggest solutions for issues that the clients may encounter

Are more trustworthy and more credibility

Can help people look at the issues from a fresh perspective

In business, each of us should strive to be a trusted advisor.  Steps that can be taken to become a trused advisor include:  

Obtaining real world experience before providing business advice on a topic

Focusing on issues that matter to us

Asking intelligent questions and sharing relevant information

Looking at the issue from different perspectives

Being a student of the issue, rather than experts on it

Think about it. 

Does it make sense? 

If so, what does it mean for you as far as your current focus and activities?  What does it suggest you should do now?

Are you a trusted advisor for your business contacts?

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Path Forward: Making the good decisions about business
Sunday, July 15th, 2007

In business and life, it is important to make the best decisions we can.  Often, we have inadequate information.  Sometimes, as our experiences grow, our perspective changes.  When that occurs, it is a good idea to take a step back and look at the options and assumptions a person has made.  Recently, that is exactly what I have done with regard to my family’s business.

LodgeFamily Business

As those of you who have been reading my blog know, my family owns a 12 room fishing lodge in Oregon. 

This lodge gave me the chance to grow up in a very rural, rugged, and beautiful place. It also gave a strong work ethic, opportunities, and experience.  

Pros and Cons

RiverFamily businesses bring their own set of opportunities and issues.  My family’s business experienced them both.

The pros (benefits) of working in a family businesses can include working with family members, spending time together, family members sharing a common interests, and emotional support for other members of the family.  In my case, working in the business gave me the chance to meet great customers (who became friends) who taught me so much about business. 

The cons (costs) of a family business can include the requirement that family members set aside personal conflicts and feelings in order to meet the needs of the business, may have perspectives about what is important, and business issues can lead to familial conflict.

RiverPerspective

The grass often looks greener on the other side of the fence.  The color of the grass depends on the lenses through which a person is looking and what matters to the person at that moment in time. 

Just like the weather in Oregon (give it a minute and it can change), so too a person’s perspective can change.  When people are just starting out, they may be driven by items at the bottom of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.  As those needs are satisfied, their motivation may move up the pyramid.

Decision

Lodge viewMy father has been operating the family business for over 30 years and he wants to slow down. Beyond that, he wanted to make sure that my siblings and I had the ability to decide whether we operated the family business.

After considering all of the possibilities, I have decided to return to Oregon and to help my father operate the fishing lodge.  

My vision and plan will allow me to grow the family business while helping people build business relationships (negotiate contracts, network, resolve conflicts) and develop their business skills.

Creek

Opportunities

Need a vacation and want to go someplace quiet? 

Seeking a small meeting venue where cell phones don’t ring? 

Are you looking for practical solutions to your business puzzles that are described in any of my blogs?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, ask yourself if there is something that you think I can do to help you. 

For many of the questions, including help finding jobs, the approaches that I have used are described in this blog.  The ideas in this blog are generic, as most “free” solutions are. 

Do you have a budget and need solutions that are tailored to your situation or need additional information?  If so, please send me a note at infoli@c-davisconsulting.com to see if I may be able to help you.  

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Positioning: Using context to reposition offerings and find opportunities
Sunday, July 15th, 2007

Some businesses are complaining about the weather in the Dallas area, at the same time other businesses are benefitting from the unusual amounts of rain. 

As noted in the Dallas Morning News, umbrella sales, car washes, and car dealers are doing well.  In contrast, concrete, water parks, and some restaurants are experiencing difficulties this summer. 

This situation illustrates an important aspect about facts.  In isolation, facts have meaning only in context.  Our perspectives provide context and help us decide what the fact means.  Each of us has a slightly (or substantially) different perspective so every person may see things a little differently from others.  

Think about what this means for a business and how context can be used to create opportunities.  What is your strategy for doing so?  Let’s consider a scenario so that you can decide if there are opportunities to improve your current strategy.

Scenario

Suppose that a customer offers $30,000 for a product or service. 

If the product or service normally sells for $20,000, the supplier is likely to be happy. 

If the product or service normally sells at $50,000, the supplier is likely to be unhappy or disappointed.

Positioning

If presented by a situation in which the customer wants to pay less than what a supplier normally charges, many suppliers reposition their offering.

Three types of changes that can be made to reposition an offering are:

Message.  Message questions relate to the content and manner of communication. 

What is communicated? 

When is it communicated? 

To whom is it communicated? 

How is it communicated? 

Where is it communicated? 

How often is it communicated?

Offering.  Changes to the value of an offering can be made by:

Eliminating unnecessary features and functionality.

Adding features and functionality.

Finding new uses for the features and functionality.

Modifications to the method of doing business that are based on customer requests and feedback.

Creating a new offering that is better aligned with the customer’s needs. 

Markets.  Changing the markets where the product or service is offered by:

Finding groups that will need the offering.

Helping customers define their perspectives and understand their needs.

Exporting the product to other countries.

Changing where the product is offered (either increases or reductions). 

Finding markets where the same customers may be more likely to buy the offering or are more likely to buy it in a way that is aligned with the supplier’s needs.

Next Steps

Think about the critical success factors that explain why customers purchase your product currently.

Consider positioning options that bear similarities to the current positioning.  This can be an easier approach to expand the positioning because you are able to build on what already exists.  The credibility built through the current positioning allows the positioning to evolve into the new opportunities.  Success in this situation requires the new customers to understand how they are similar to the existing customers.

As the information is gathered, keeping an open mind and listening to the customer is important.  In many cases, customers will see opportunities that suppliers may overlook.

Engaging customers and potential customers in the dialogue, building relationships, and creating value for them increases the likelihood that they will share their candid feedback with you.  Sometimes, their feedback may be different from what you are hoping, expecting, and looking for.  When this happens, you have important information that can be explored and evaluated.

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