Saturday, July 14th, 2007
Suppliers try to force customers to change. Customers try to force suppliers to change. Â
Trying to change someone else leads to:
ConflictÂ
Frustration for the parties
Backlash from the party pressured to change
Resentment and abandonment of the relationship
Instead of trying to change someone else, focus on factors that are within your control. This can be done by:
Changing perspectives
Accepting the other party’s right to control itself
Exploring the issues that led the other party to take the action it can
Asking the other party to take specific action and explaining why you are asking
Talking about the issue and seeking options that address all parties’ concerns and needs
Agreeing to disagree on the issue and, then, making the best decision you can based on the facts as they currently exist
Finding and implementing workarounds that do not require change by the other parties to the relationship
What results can these approaches generate for you? Â
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